While Eric and I
were discussing what blocks us from attaining our goals, we touched upon an
issue that many people have (Eric quoted that it could be as high as 95%). Many
of us have an unconscious belief that we don’t want to be here. If it is such a
high percentage, no wonder we sabotage out deepest desires! This is especially
true when our desire is to be healthy. Up until 3 years ago, I didn’t have any
physical distress. However, the chronic pain from both Frozen Shoulders and
heavy metal poisoning brought about many changes. And many realizations about
choices I’ve made and beliefs I’ve held, including that I didn’t want to be
here. As well as decisions that if I were handicapped (chronic pain) I wouldn’t
have to support myself. I didn’t have to take my chronic pain to this level or
exasperate my condition further, because I realized the choices I was making
and began the journey of healing.
Even though my
shoulders are almost completely healed, I still continue to sabotage my health,
even while I have consciously been focused on my health. And this is why I have
continued to discuss it. This is the reason I want to discuss this with you.
When you want something and you continue to sabotage your efforts, the place
you need to look is your motivation. Conscious or unconscious, there is still a
reason that you need to investigate, and discover why you continue to sabotage.
Somewhere there is a conflicting motivation or belief that you need to uncover.
Are you coming from a place from fear or love? This is critical when exploring
your motivation.
Ask yourself if
you are truly living? Where are you sabotaging your life? When you think about
this life, do you often say you aren’t from here? Or are you looking forward to
leaving, believing that the afterlife or your next life will be better? That
this life you are being karmically punished?
When it comes to
unconscious motivators we must remember that our “choices” come from the
present! If we aren’t in the present, then we are reliving our past
programming, our fears and our unconscious beliefs. When we are present and
grounded, we can make better choices and observe and be more aware of our
motivation. Both Eric and I have discussed how to become more grounded and that
will allow for better choices (in our show http://www.intuitivesoul.com/news-for-the-heart-laurie-huston-talks-with-eric-altman).
The trouble is that if on some unconscious level we do not want to be here
suffering or for whatever reason, our motivation will be to sabotage the
efforts of our conscious self who is doing our very best to live a meaningful
and fulfilling life.
Beginning this
Support Group with Eric Altman has definitely provided a new network of people
to share and dream with. One of the most wonderful parts of being in a support
group is that as you receive help and make progress on your journey, you are
supporting others in the group on their journey. Likewise, as the other members
of the group move forward on the issues they are working on, it helps you heal
too! I invite you to share and explore your dreams and what is motivating them
with us. If you find that there are certain things that you keep sabotaging,
explore why. Discuss and share with a group of like-minded (or like-hearted)
people. Find a way to be in charge of your choices and make sure all the parts
of you are on board with moving in the same direction. Practice being Present
and Grounded. This will assist you to be more aware. However, the most
important thing to realize is that you are PERFECT just the way you are!
Be Gentle to yourself and accept yourself! This will go a long way to Self-Love
and Self-Care, the focus of 2015! And join our Support Group (http://www.intuitivesoul.com/services/eric-altmans-support-group)
to support your Journey forward!
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