This is one of
the most important topics to date. Many people talk about changing our stories,
yet, what are these stories. They are what we tell ourselves when something
happens that we feel is personal. Like I’m stupid, I’m always abandoned, I’m
sad, unhappy, and lonely… you get the idea (story). Our initial reaction is
authentic. We may feel frustrated, angry, excited, anxious, or a variety of
emotions that are valid. However, it is after our initial response that we have
the choice to choose how to respond next. This is the time when a story is
either validated or created from our past experiences. As many ancient wisdom
teachings suggest, all events are neutral, it is our choice to come from a
conscious choosing of our response or adding to our story and letting our
unconscious reaction hold us prisoner.
This is an
important distinction, knowing that our initial reaction is unconscious and
valid; we then have the opportunity to evolve our consciousness by choosing to
rewrite our story. Seeing the event as neutral and allowing ourselves the
opportunity to view what happens as just something that happens and it is NOT
personal to us. It isn’t about what someone else has done to us or that they
are trying to hurt us, it is just an event. We can now choose to accept our
initial reaction and be gentle to ourselves by knowing that it is perfectly
authentic to express emotions. Every emotion is necessary and has a natural
movement of energy that is beneficial to us. Anger expressed authentically can
get us moving towards a powerful action, especially if we are in a depressed
state.
However, if it
builds upon our “story” of I’m angry because this always happens to me and we
give the anger a story to hold onto, then we get stuck in the story of what
happened to us. Yet, we always have another opportunity to make another choice.
If we can give
ourselves the opportunity to feel and express our initial emotion of anger and
then examine what happened, we can then make a conscious choice to grow our
consciousness and change our neural pathways and create new ones. The most
effective and simplest way I have found to do this is through using mBrainng.
It shows us how to come from our “highest expressions” of our multiple brains
and create new neural pathways so that we can change our story forever.
Then our stories become forever changed and our old storylines can no
longer imprison us.
When our head,
heart and gut brains are aligned and working together, we can come from a
congruent place and entrain our hearts to radiate a powerful vibration and
magnetize to us our deepest desires. Once aligned, they offer us the
opportunity to become empowered and come from compassion, creativity and
courage to follow our dreams instead of being led by our stories.
Let’s stop
weaving “stories” and change the world beginning with our own!
See more at:
http://www.intuitivesoul.com/the-stories-we-weave
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