- Happy New Year 2018! The year of Mastery and Love! I have seen different posts on what this year will be about. Intuitively I feel that this year is about Mastery and Love. I feel it is always important to set your intentions each New Year and forget your resolutions. Intentions are a choice we make that signals the Universe to help us create from a state of BEing, Grace, and clarity. Resolutions are something that we set and often, when we don’t achieve them, create a sense of failure. It is by definition a tradition in which a person resolves to change an undesired trait or behavior to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve their life (Wikipedia).
When we set Resolutions we come from a place of doing. ‘Doing’ results in
falling back into old patterns – especially if we haven’t changed any of our
beliefs, fears or expectations – because we are trying to control, manipulate,
change, fix or heal ourselves from this ‘doing’ state. This state doesn’t
recognize our Being and Divine Self. Intentions, to me, are about connecting
into how we ‘intend’ to feel and come from a state of BEing not doing. In my show
with Tom Campbell, he suggests it isn’t what you DO rather how you do it.
It’s who we are while we do it or how we are BEing.
When we write our Resolutions for the year we are attempting to ‘do’
something. And unless we come from our BEing level we aren’t likely going to
make any lasting changes. We often review all the things wrong with our outer
self and set goals such as weight-loss, health, fitness and addictions and look
for ways to control, change or fix ourselves. We look at how we can approach
our ‘problems’ differently to make lasting changes. However, we have to ‘own’
our problems, take responsibility for our fears and choices. When we have
something we want to change, like our weight because it impacts our health, we
have to know our motivation and approach it understanding what the underlying
cause is. This is where we need to dig deeper than just using our mental will
to change. We have to figure out what the cause of the weight gain was
initially, yes, from the beginning. Like in the act of stopping smoking we can
use our will to lose weight however if the underlying cause is still present
whatever we have tried to stop – or an alternative addictive behavior – will
continue. And I am calling this underlying cause ‘fear’. And so we ‘do’ things
out of fear rather than ‘Being’ – which is how we express ourselves – so if
there is fear while we are BEing we can recognize it and change it to how we
would rather BE.
And it is our fears that will continue to create our addictions to food,
sugar, alcohol, smoking, or whatever else we do that we don’t exercise our will
over and our will loses its initial energy because the fear is still there!
This is why mental ‘fixing’ doesn’t work. Once we reveal to ourselves the
underlying fear it is very likely that we won’t need will power to ‘stop’ a
particular behavior since stopping that behavior will be seemingly effortless.
When we come from a place of BEing we are first connecting with the
Infinite and Authentic Self within us. We are acknowledging our True Self. Our
intentions then come from within us and have a sense of Connection to our Inner
Self. We can intend to Feel more Love and Compassion for ourselves and others.
We can intend to share Who we are more to the World. And since our intentions
come from within us, not outside of us, we can shift towards a BEing level. And
we can make changes outside of us as long as we approach the change from an
inner place of how it makes or will make us feel, instead of what we can ‘do’
differently. Does this make sense?
When we come from a place of Love instead of fear we will always create
what it is we desire most. Fears create more fear. Love is the energy and
vibration of the Universe. However we can’t just love ourselves thin because we
are still viewing the problem as outside ourselves and that we are ‘doing’
something wrong. So as we enter the New Year and want to celebrate with
creating New adventures in our lives let’s begin by asking ourselves how we
want to Feel this New Year and bring more consciousness into how we are feeling
by focusing on Loving Energy – the Energy that is our True Essence.
When you consider 2018 and a New You I invite you to consider the
vibrations of 2018 as Mastery and Love. What would you like to Master this
year? Approach it from a BEing level instead of ‘doing’ level. If you feel the
need to change things within your life then contemplate how you express your
consciousness around this area of your life. How would you like to approach it
differently from all the other years? Examine how you feel about yourself and
what you are wanting to change, heal, fix or control. If you knew you were
perfect right now, if you knew that you are the one judging yourself and just
perceiving others as judging you, would you approach how you see yourself
differently? If you came from a loving place that held no fear – as in needing
to fix, control or manipulate – could you shift your motivation towards what
you want to change? Often our motivation is fear based so shifting this
motivation would require you not seeing the ‘problem’ but knowing how to best
express Who You Are. When we have the courage to face our inner fears – feeling
unworthy, abandoned or separate – then we recognize how we have been living our
lives through these fears.
Addictions like sugar and emotional eating come from a fear. Sugar can be
understood when we review our childhood and see that we were often rewarded
with sweets; so we based our worthiness and value on food. These are the ways
we must contemplate the changes we desire to make.
My wish is that you approach this New Year with Expressing Who You Are
through Shining outward the Inner Essence that is YOU. Know that you are
Perfect as you are and that you only intend to express this Essence from a
Compassionate, Loving place. Make Intentions that create more Love, Joy and
Happiness within your life. And always move towards Evolving your Consciousness
from a state of Love. From my Heart to Yours ♡
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